Have you tried Carnivore Care? It helps with situations like this, you can get it through your vet...A recipe is to mix half Carnivore Care and half of a high quality cat food (preferably one with no by-products, dyes, fillers ect.) It is normal for a ferret to have to recover from surgery and I would imagine that a ferret would take longer since they're such tiny things.
Cookie is grinding her teeth because she is in pain, but it could also be low blood sugar or diseases of the gastrointestinal tract. Check the roof of the mouth for ulcers (this may also be a cause for teeth grinding) but I am guessing this from stress and pain. The teeth grinding will stop once she is over the pain from not feeling well.
It does seem odd that your ferret was lethargic before surgery, but it could have been a symptom from the foreign object within her. This happened to our family dog once, he was VERY lethargic and wouldn't eat, which was unusual for our happy eater. Luckily, we got it safely taken care of. And he was still lethargic for about a week or so after the surgery but was soon back to his normal self.
I'm sorry you have to go through this with a pet, no one enjoys doing so..I hope this info helped! Feel free to send me a message on here if you have any further questions!
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